The Twins - Socha by Panagiotis Filippou
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The Twins - Socha

March 26, 2015

"Socha : The Hidden Vulnerability of Others

"There’s an optical illusion that’s easy to fall for, even if you know the trick.

The more distant you are from other people, the more invulnerable they appear. You see yourself as you are, with your flaws jus as clear as your successes, but you see most other people on their terms, only from the side they present to the world.

And at first glance they’ve got everything figured out, with everything set in stone, securely embedded in their community, wrapped up with their loved ones, their lives like a finished work of art.

But it’s only a trick of perspective, because you can’t see the cracks from so far away. How insecure their footing, how malleable they really are.

How many years of effort went into shaping their persona into something acceptable, how many other hands it took to build their lives, which are still only ever a work in progress.

It’s the looking of basic human vulnerability that we’d all find familiar, but is still somehow surprising when we notice it in others.

It’s an open question why we have such public confidence and such private doubts. Maybe that contradiction is what keeps us moving, wanting to be more than what we are, and never be satisfied.

Maybe it lets us keep our distance, to avoid too much friction as we brush past each other. Or maybe it’s what draws us together, the only irreplaceable thing we still need each other for, just one last excuse to keep stopping by, so we can prop each other up, and remind ourselves that nothing is set in stone, not even who we are, or who we pretend to be."

Till we meed Dad...

16mm · f/11.0 · 54s · ISO 64
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